Convergent social status quo.
According to the video, the orange juice ice stands for non-alcoholic people, and the plate represents an equal social environment. Let ice of different properties melt in the same equal space, and see if different amounts of alcoholic and non-alcoholic blend. For example, when a drinker and a non-drinker are in a social environment, they do not interact with each other, or do not influence each other. But when one part has more than the other, the part with less will be affected and even change the nature. So, in the end, I think it is because the social environment is affecting people.
Like I mentioned before, in China, drinking culture is an important element in daily life and business life. Good drinking can be a boost to success, more than 90 percent of the successful business is in the dinner. There is a famous saying in China, ” If you think we are good friends, drink it all. If you only drink a little, we are not good friends,” which also represent the important of drinking. So, if non-alcoholic does not want to drinking, they may lose the chance. Sometimes, because of the social environment, we have to give up our views and position.
Take marriage for example, in China, when girls reach a certain age would be parents urged hurry get married, these parents will think if too old are not married, their girls would became an older women without married, and, the most important thing is, in this age, you around most of the girls are married, so you also important follow the pace of this most to do the same thing. Therefore, most girls will choose to get married just because they have reached the stage where everyone wants to get married, even if they do not want to get married, or the husband may not be the one they love.
In conclusion, we will be affected by the convergent of social status, so as to change our views or positions. Sometimes, this social status may give you some successful advice that can tell you which direction is right, the reason why it is a phenomenon means that there are indeed many successful cases. On the other hand, it is because that you do not have an obvious goal or psychological expectation. And successful cases in the temptation to you, the potential unknown in the threat of you.